People show love and affection in various ways but the following are the major ones; giving prizes, giving help and assistance, using kind terms, kissing, working together and showing gratitude. In this article, we shall look at kissing. Kissing involves pressing your own lips against another person’s lips. Kissing may also involve pressing your lips against an object such as a rosary. Other than love and affection, kissing also shows peace, good luck, greeting, friendship, respect, romance, and devotion. In romance, the most used kisses are; French kiss, vampire kiss, earlobe kiss, neck kiss, and forehead kiss. In order to effectively show love and affection, you need to prepare for a kiss. The following are steps on how to kiss.
The first step in kissing is to give some hints. It is inappropriate to ask for a kiss directly since signs and hints work effectively. The most important hint is to look at your partner’s lips. You can also tell your partner that his/her lips look attractive. In order to have smooth lips, you should use a lip balm and drink a lot of water. You should also have a fresh breath hence you should use some mints and gums. Please avoid chewing the mints awkwardly.
The second step in kissing is to break the barrier. By breaking the barrier, you will be able to test the waters. In order to determine if your partner is interested in kissing, please kiss his/her hand or cheek. When your partner reacts positively, you are lucky. In case your partner gives a negative reaction, you should not go farther.
In kissing, you should also employ compliments. The compliments will help you to set the mood for a kiss. Giving sincere compliments will force your partner to take the lead and initiate the kiss. The compliments should be given in a romantic way. Compliments will be ineffective if you use a high volume and a wrong tone. Good kissers use compliments such as; “Your smile is irresistible,” “You are gorgeous,” and “You have smooth lips.”
If the above steps have yielded nothing, you should request for a kiss. The word of mouth will assist those whose signs and hints have failed. You need to be conversant with polite ways of requesting for a kiss.
The final step is to do the kissing. Positive signs and signals mean that you can now kiss your partner. You should use the best kissing techniques in order to establish a good connection. You should move closer, go for the kiss and react calmly after the kiss.